As first-time parents, it can be extremely difficult for both the mother and the father of the child. You’ve read as many baby books as you could get your hands on, purchased all the necessary supplies, and finally brought the baby home from the hospital. You may think you have a pretty good idea of what it takes to be a parent, but you might be doing it all wrong. Even though everyone has a different way of approaching parenthood, there are some methods that aren’t quite right and even some that are dangerous for you or the child. Don’t panic because we’ve got you covered.

Here are 20 common mistakes new parents are making.